Healthcare Decisions for the Aging Parent

Assisted Living Cuero Texas

 

While caring for aging adults in our lives, there are often a lot of medical decisions to be made. Medical providers usually present multiple options, the right choice is not always obvious. The decision making process is a combination of factors, many of them personal. Is the procedure being looked at necessary? Will it be hard on the patient? There are usually pros and cons to any suggested procedure or decision.  

My mom was 84 years old and got a small spot of skin cancer on her face. Her gerontologist and I talked it over and decided to have it checked. When the dermatologist saw it, she immediately said “That has to be treated!”. I had done some research and assumed Moh’s surgery would be the plan, and that was what the doctor suggested. This surgery is very effective with a high cure rate. It is usually an outpatient procedure with a local anesthetic. But Moh’s can take several hours and I knew mom was not aware enough to understand what was happening to her. My decision was not only one of outcome, but of need. As she was unable to decide for herself, it was up to me.

Ultimately, a caregiver has to develop a sense of trust in their ability to make the right decision. This trust needs to be coupled with good medical care and a thorough understanding of a loved one's medical and personal circumstance. It can be quite difficult to make a healthcare related decision for another person, especially when that person does not have the capacity to assist in guiding the person left to make the decision.

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