The Ability to Make One's Own Decisions
Graceland Assisted Living Garden Ridge Texas
Most of us want to be able to have control of our own destiny, but in truth, we all face circumstances that limit us and our power to make decisions. We want to be able to "steer" the course of our lives as long as absolutely possible, but we all face the reality that we juggle issues of personal safety and autonomy.
Looking at it from the outside, a decision to move the elder to assisted living, or even a nursing home, can seem like a no-brainer. However, as caregivers we must put ourselves in our elder's place. How would you like someone who had always reported to you at work to turn around and suddenly start giving you orders? Perhaps this person would even try to re-arrange your office and put a tracer on your phone calls. You'd be, um, rather upset, right?
Respect should guide every decision made on behalf of seniors who are facing loss of their independence. Seniors need to know that their loved ones are on their side and will work to do everything with their best interest at heart. It takes work, time and patience to manage allow seniors power to manage their lives as much as possible.
